Saturday, 16 August 2014

The Lollibop 2014 Lowdown


Lollibop is a festival that claims to be "The biggest day out for kids this summer" and I really do think they could be right!

Luckily I had won a family ticket to Lollibop, this was so amazing for us because we had been looking to take our son as a treat before he started school, but as my husband was made redundant, we just couldn't justify the high cost....and then, as if by magic, I won the tickets!

We set off with raincoats knowing it was forecast to pour it down, but we also packed suncream, and also a packed lunch so that we didn't have to worry about feeding our fussy eaters. As our little one is only 1 year old, we also took our cheap foldable buggy with us as well.

When we got to the car park, we had to pay £10 to park! We were shocked by this considering the tickets were over £20 each, it seemed excessive and I would have liked to seen free parking included or at least a kinder amount, £2 or £3. 
It was great not to be in London, I don't like London, it's too busy and I don't like the tube or the buses. I hope Lollibop stays outside of Central London, the space was amazing here and the journey was a breeze.

We arrived at the collection booth before 10am, but were made to wait 20 minutes until 10am to collect our tickets...this was rediculous because we then had another 5 minute wait for them to figure out what they were doing with our wristbands, and everyone who had queued for 25 minutes to collect tickets or wristbands here, were then expected to join at the back of another huuuuge queue to get into the event! As we had wristbands instead of tickets we decided to try and just walk past the queue...it kind of worked, although the people at the entrance had no idea what the wristbands were or what to do with them, so they just looked confused and shoveled us through.

The entrance was a huge inflatable rainbow that you walk under, this set the tone of the event straight away- fun, colourful, inclusive and perfectly enjoyable for kids! Which kid doesn't love a rainbow?! Rainbow is our favourite colour!! Inside followed suite accordingly with rainbow coloured windmills attached to every pillar and post, all the activity tents were colourful, fun and inviting. There were large maps set up for parents to glance at, and picnic benches with colouring sheets on to keep children occupied. 

The activity tents and areas were spaced out on a huge field that was buggy friendly. Right inside the entrance was a table with "if I am lost" wristbands and pens to write your details on. Next year...this area needs to be longer and on both sides for ease and to stop congestion. A "lost" booth within the main Lollibop area would have been handy too, perhaps with something really big and well known floating in the sky so that parents can say to their children "if you get lost, go there!" 

The first thing the kids did when we entered was jump on a "lifesize" Thomas the Tank engine, they hoped on board for a quick play and a photo. There was a whole Thomas area here, with different games to play to win prizes- tattoos, stickers. It was very good with friendly staff!

We then found the portable toilets- clean, not smelly, plenty of loo roll! Although inside a sticker boasted about being bigger so that parents can help their kids, which was a bit of a lie because even alone I struggled to turn around inside the darned box before the door slammed shut on me. But they weren't busy and we never had to queue to pee, always good!

The Lollipalladium was the smaller, mini stage that's within a tent, and sadly it was a major let down for many Lolliboppers it seems. A small tent that could only house a couple hundred people was met with terribly long queues, and miserable, uncaring, useless staff guarding the entrance. Many people queued for over half an hour to be told they can't go in, so the children stood outside able to hear the sounds of Mr Bloom or Scopby Doo wondering why they weren't allowed to watch. Once we managed to get inside on 2 occasions, my children were upset at the volume of the music and we had to leave as it was actually hurting their ears! Next year, they *need* to change this so that there are two seperate open air stages at opposite ends of the park to maximise the number of people who can watch the shows. It would really improve the whole day and a lot of negativity that was apparent would disappear.  It only makes sense that an unlimited number of people should be allowed to watch the shows they have paid to see. Please sort it out Lollibop!

The main stage was open air, and an unlimited number of people could watch the shows, there was also a large screen on the left hand side and a seperate disabled viewing platform. Even right at the back of this section you could see!
The main shows were here, with Alex Winters off CBeebies presenting inbetween the acts. We watched Mr Maker, Lazytown, Sam and Mark, Horrible Histories and a few more. The highlight for us on this stage was the Horrible Histories show, my 4 year old loves the Romans so their "Ruthless Romans" show was really entertaining for him, especially as it had funny slapstick comedy that really made him giggle! 
Most things on this stage were repeated 3 times during the day, so on a plus side it gave everyone the opportunity to see the shows, but a negative side is that you can end up seeing things more than once.



The shows were entertaining and they all had the kids dancing and joining in, the main stage was always busy with Alex Winters providing entertainment between the acts.

Around the venue were many various tents with more fun things for children to do! It was a shame that Health and Safety kicks in a lot here though, in the Nintendo tent, where there were various activities to do, there was a "one child in the ball pit at a time" rule, and the Little Tikes area which was full of cars to ride and toys to play with could only have a few kids at a time in a fenced off area, and you had to sign up to something before entering. It would have been nice if they just had the toys in a larger area that you could walk up and play instantly.

The Science Museum tent was good with lots to see and do, and we were lucky to see their big experiment which was awesome, they filled up a bottle with water and dry ice and popped it inside an oil drum, and filled it with balls, and then with a huge KABOOM it exploded and the tent was littered with tons of mulitcoloured balls! Adults and kids loved it.

It's great that there were face painting stalls (free!) dotted around and other free things like free Haribo, pombears, bubble shows, tshirt decorating etc!
The kids decorated a gingerbread man each in the cooking tent which was good fun too. The Harry Potter wizarding tent was ace, with magic shows, and the kids made a wand and took home a magic bean too! They also met Hagrid!



There were loads of food options, and although we took a picnic we still had to get something, my 4 year old chose this awesome twisted chip, which the man transformed from boring potato into amazing snack in front of his eyes!



Another favourite part of ours was the Meet And Greet tent, it could get busy but we met some of our favourites here - Alex Winters, Horrible Histories, Postman Pat, Chris and Pui and Andy Day!

To sum it up, it was a really lovely day out, with so much to do, and see, that you almost need 2 days to do it all. Almost a week later my children are still talking about all the things they did.
You also get so much free stuff you need an extra bag to take it all home in!! We would love to go again next year, and depending on the venue (come to Kent, go on!) we might actually do Lollibop again instead of a family holiday! 



Wednesday, 16 July 2014

A Superhero Themed Birthday Party (on a budget!)


My eldest boy asked for a "Superhero" themed birthday party for when he turned 4 recently. This was a bit of a worry for me, as I had never hosted a birthday party before, let alone a themed one! So I wanted to make sure that I was able to fulfil the wish of my son by providing enough Superhero-ness, but on our tight budget.

I only invited 10 children, 2 couldn't make it, so including my two, only 10 children were coming. I thought it was best we start small.

The Budget

We are on a tight budget, so apart from food and party bags contents, I didn't want to spend much at all. I wanted to use things we already had, and make my own party games.

Location

We have a small house, but our garden is sufficiently sized to host a small party, perfect for that summer child, although it would not be good to have a garden party for a winter baby I guess.

Decorations

Okay, I admit to have used the same decorations I used 4 years ago, I even have a "happy 1st birthday" banner that I just pop a piece of paper with the correct number on! I only used banners and hung some steamers from the trees! It was simple but got the point across.
There were loads of balloons around and we decorated the front door with balloons too.


Food

We gave the food table a superhero theme by using black paper as a skyscraper backdrop, and drawing on the little square windows with chalk! 



I did use a plain white table cloth we already had to draw more of the cityscape such as the road, but due to the amount of food, no one could even see it! 

We already had the plates and napkins etc. As we purchased them over the years for about 25p each from the reduced sections! Which is why we had Scooby Doo Halloween plates! The kids loved them though.

The food was classic party food -cocktail sausages, sandwiches etc! But where we could we popped a superhero spin, and made labels for them, for example:
Cheese with pretzel sticks became Thor's Hammer
We found lattice crisps to use as Spider-Man Web Crisps


We even made Ironman Jelly by layering strawberry jelly with lemon jelly!



I forgot to photograph most of the food we made, including the Hulk Oreo Pops which were Oreos with a stick inserted inside, dipped in green chocolate, and then decorated to look like the Hulk's face (chocolate eyes and mouth, sprinkles hair)! You can just about see them here: 



I bought the sausage rolls and sausages from the frozen section for a reduced price a couple months ago, and we used up ham, cheese, cucumber etc from the fridge, which was great because we needed all the space we could get, so using stuff we already had was practical as well as being thrifty.

We even had 2 bottles of free Coke Zero (for the parents!) that a friend had given us after using vouchers from a newspaper.


The Party Games

The first hour was for eating food, and general playtime, including dressing up in my son's dressing up collection! We have them on a rail which made it easy to roll it outside for them to use.

We played the classic "Pass the Parcel" using a gift that I found at 90% off in a shop, and wrapping paper I bought from Asda that was also 90% off. The first layer of paper was "Marvel superhero" wrapping paper from Primark, which we already had, just to make it fit our theme! Each layer had a Kinder bar inside that I got for a great price on Amazon, I added them so that I got free delivery on a DVD I already wanted to buy. Sometimes this can be brilliant as you can get essential items like hand wash for a price that's cheaper than the supermarket, delivered to your door, and get free delivery on that £6 DVD too!

The next game we played was Pin The Pants on Super Pants Man. 

This was our spin on the classic donkey tail version. I used the kids paint to paint the chap onto a big bit of paper (could use wallpaper etc) and then made different pants to pin on from scrap paper. I am not a natural artist, but I was pleased with how it turned out. I tried to make the chap look like Daddy!

They all had a few goes, and thought it was very funny.



I forgot to get photographs of the following games, but did a bowling game called Bowl the Badguys. We collected  bottles from the recycling over a few weeks and coloured them by putting bright paint inside and shaking it up to cover the whole inner surface, and left it to dry (some never dried but with the lids on, a quick shake made them coloured for an hour or so). We stuck or drew pictures of Bad Guys (the joker, Loki etc) on the front of the bottles. During the party, the kids could line them up, and throw a ball at the bottles to knock them down, easy! Another option would be to do this with a Captain America theme and use a frisbee!
Hulk Smash/Target Practice
We also kept cardboard boxes over a few weeks and let the kids stack them up high, before kicking or punching them down with their Superhero moves! 


Party Bags

We used party bags from the reduced section (5p a pack!).
The sweets were from Poundland, Haribo and Spiderman sticks. I popped in a toy car (3 for £1!) or a Slinky type spring (2 for £1) also from Poundland for each child too, as well as a chunk of cake! Temporary tattoos, balloons, bubbles are things I've included in the past.



The party is over! Now time to relax.

Oh hang on, here are the cakes!



My top tips:

If you have the space to store bits throughout the year, buy things at a reduced price with the intention of using them for birthday parties! Such as party bag gifts, decorations, even food if it will still be in date.

Make your own games and decorations to play! You can even personalise them.

Try to keep it to 2 hours maximum, any longer is just too long to keep everyone entertained.



Tuesday, 15 July 2014

Hello, again!

It has been quite some time hasn't it? I must say that I find fitting in being a mum, working and blogging incredibly difficult, and I admire those who manage to do it!! I would love to be a Mummy Blogger, I feel like it would open up opportunities for me and my family, and also be a perfect outlet for my stresses, wishes and questions!

I hope you will follow me on my new journey? 

Saturday, 28 July 2012

A hospital visit

It's taken me a week to get around to writing about it, but last Saturday, at around 10am, I started to have the most PAINFUL abdominal pain, ever. It quickly took over and pulled me down towards the floor. Not knowing what the pain was, or why i was having it, my female self opted for the "see if a hot bath can fix it" technique. It certainly helped a bit, but I was still unable to walk, which meant I turned to the second "fix it" option....a nap!!

A nap didn't help much, although I am so tired all the time recently, I did enjoy it. The pain continued, so I finally picked up the phone to speak to my midwife.

Well, she doesn't work Saturdays... typical! Instead I suppose I shall phone the local hospital for help, which was also equally as useless. My City has a population of about 45,000 people, yet we do not have ANY provisions for giving birth or even essential antenatal care, as the baby unit closed at 3.30pm. GREAT.
Eventually the phone rang through and I reached Dover baby unit. They suggested I go along to see them. Okay, 45 minutes away, fair enough I will drop my 2 year old off at his grandparents, I'm sure we won't be long...WRONG.

They thought it seemed like I had a pulled muscle or ligament. Fair enough. But they tested my urine straight away and there was a "significant amount of blood" in it, they couldn't help there as its not a proper hospital. So I was sent to Margate hospital...another 50 minutes away. GREAT. I puked on the way too, so we had to find a bin to put my puke filled nappy sack in before we went inside the hospital. EW.

Another urine test (man, I'm so glad I can pee on command!) revealed, yet again, I must have a wee infection.
We hung around at Margate for another 3 hours before a foreign male doctor said I needed a speculum, to which I ran out the door. I already knew I had a pulled muscle and a wee infection, I wasn't sure what a speculum would help with?!

Fingers crossed I won't see a hospital again until I give birth!!!

Thursday, 19 July 2012

Pregnancy delights!

So this is my second pregnancy, and I have noticed that when these things I sarcastically refer to as "pregnancy delights" occur, I suddenly remember that they happened in my first pregnancy too, but my clever little mind has obviously decided it would be best to erase them from my memory. I guess that is normal, and women would probably have difficulty in wanting to go through another pregnancy if they were still able to remember ALL of those pregnancy delights...! Labour included!! Anyway, the reason I write this now is because LEG CRAMPS revisited last night. I woke from a deep sleep with a horrible horrible feeling in my left leg, I wasn't sure what to do to get rid of it...do I just wait, walk on it, or stretch it? I opted for the stretching, and after the pain became worse, it soon passed and I was able to lie down and carry on with my dreams. But jeez! I had honestly forgotten all about those darned leg cramps. But in the middle of the night, "bananas help" soon flashed into my mind. I will regoogle this later to check. I had leg cramps first time around, and they were SO bad in the third trimester, one night I woke up shouting "f*ck!!!" and my boyfriend thought I had gone into labour so he quickly shrugged off a "it's leg cramp" cry and went back to bed leaving me alone in my leg cramp hell. Another pregnancy delight I suffered badly from was Restless Leg Syndrome. IT EXISTS!! (Taken from www.babycenter.co.uk) What it is If you feel an uncontrollable urge to move your legs to relieve crawling, tingling, or burning sensations, you probably have restless legs syndrome (RLS). It sounds absurd, I know, but combined with leg cramps, general uncomfortableness (dammit huge bump) it meant I averaged only a few hours sleep a night. Waking up for work was a struggle to say the least! Restless Leg Syndrome hasn't come back yet, but I sincerely hope that is one pregnancy delight that stays far far away! Sam